Archive - “Since You Asked”

On Updating My Term Sheet

The Origin of Being Unreasonable

Apr 18 •

Unintended Uses

Quick note to the readers: Thank you very much for your recent feedback. You seem to enjoy outfit info and recipes so here’s a duo. Please keep the…

Apr 9 •

Unintended Uses

Quick note to the readers: Thank you very much for your recent feedback. You seem to enjoy outfit info and recipes so here’s a duo. Please keep the…

Apr 4 •

March 2024

I’m not quite sure who you’d send this card to or when, but I appreciate its attempt to bring some levity to a thorny topic. Probably not a bestseller…

Mar 27 •

Evolution: From Beach Girl to…Beach Woman

Tips for Spring Break and Beyond

Mar 5 •

February 2024

Zoom-In is The Devil

Here’s a pro tip for increasing your quality of life from your demi-elder buddy: don’t zoom in. Culture already has women wired for perfectionism when…

Feb 15 •

January 2024

De-Stress Getting Dressed

A while back I wrote about how getting dressed as a demi-elder isn't easy. Sharing here a few times I pulled myself together, took a look in the mirror…

Jan 31 •

December 2023

Full Cup, Different Stemware

Peak life moment: My family around my table for Christmas dinner. And that’s the extent of what we usually show via social media. But there’s always…

Dec 29, 2023 •

November 2023

Cold(er) Weather All-Stars

eat, sleep, slather

Nov 28, 2023 •

October 2023

“This is your captain speaking.”

24 hours at JFK

Oct 6, 2023 •

September 2023

so long sociopath

One of The Best Pieces of Advice I’ve Ever Received (and Have Never Written About)

Sep 8, 2023 •

August 2023

it takes more than spf

let's be honest

Aug 7, 2023 •

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